Planned "Unplanned" Pregnancies - Debates

~~MW5M~~ · 03-31-2006, 11:32 PM

What do you think of girls who try to trap men *or boys* in a relationship by getting pregnant on purpose?

mara_jade81 · 03-31-2006, 11:57 PM

that they're desperate and conniving. can't see as how the relationship would ever be that great considering it was built on such manipulation. the poor child too...

MontanaSweetie · 04-01-2006, 12:01 AM

I think of them the same way as girls who get pregnant to get out of going on a deployment.

footstepswife · 04-01-2006, 12:05 AM

Yes I agree, if you are not happy know do you honestly thing having a baby is going to make him a better person and stay with you.

And girls who try to get out of cruise or dets drive me crazy ____why even join the navy.

04-01-2006, 12:09 AM

it's just wrong

Sophie* · 04-01-2006, 12:10 AM

I'm not sure there's anything positive to say about them...

Just out of curiosity, what made you think to ask?

Rach · 04-01-2006, 12:13 AM

lol, exactly Zelda...I was going to say "i think their great!"

Does this apply to young girls who think having a baby will make their relationship better & will be happy?

I think it's sad all around....They don't know it at the time, but a baby isn't going to solve anything and then they have to learn the hard way....

~~MW5M~~ · 04-01-2006, 12:25 AM

Originally Posted by Rach

Does this apply to young girls who think having a baby will make their relationship better & will be happy?

I think it's sad all around....They don't know it at the time, but a baby isn't going to solve anything and then they have to learn the hard way....

among other things....

rosebud* · 04-01-2006, 02:59 AM

Well I think that it shows a lack of maturity, to think that having baby with a man/boy who won't commit to you, will make him suddenly want to commit in a relationship.

Heather · 04-01-2006, 09:17 AM

Its a really bad choice. From what I've seen it really doesnt work. She'll end up with the kid no man and no money. Not smart. they need to be better educated

03-31-2006, 11:32 PM	#1 (permalink)
~~MW5M~~ Banned Join Date: Feb 2004 Location: Down South Posts: 12,888 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 98%	Planned "Unplanned" Pregnancies What do you think of girls who try to trap men or boys in a relationship by getting pregnant on purpose?

03-31-2006, 11:57 PM	#2 (permalink)
mara_jade81 Cheeseburger in Paradise Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Monterey, California Posts: 16,104 Blog Entries: 3 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 12% Longevity: 98%	that they're desperate and conniving. can't see as how the relationship would ever be that great considering it was built on such manipulation. the poor child too... __________________

04-01-2006, 12:01 AM	#3 (permalink)
MontanaSweetie Loving My Navy Veteran Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Great Falls, Montana Posts: 16,468 Classifieds: (-2) Activity: 0% Longevity: 91%	I think of them the same way as girls who get pregnant to get out of going on a deployment. __________________ *Life Is A Dance Floor, Love Is The Rythym, You Are The Music*

04-01-2006, 12:05 AM	#4 (permalink)
footstepswife my AOC truly makes me happy Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Highland Park, IL Posts: 8,785 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 62%	Yes I agree, if you are not happy know do you honestly thing having a baby is going to make him a better person and stay with you. And girls who try to get out of cruise or dets drive me crazy ____why even join the navy. __________________

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rosebud* rosebud*<3 Brittany Jo && <3 thekels9 Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: [wherever his heart is] Posts: 32,651 Blog Entries: 2 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 49% Longevity: 67%	Well I think that it shows a lack of maturity, to think that having baby with a man/boy who won't commit to you, will make him suddenly want to commit in a relationship. __________________

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04-01-2006, 12:09 AM	#5 (permalink)
happygirl0486 Guest Posts: n/a Activity: 0% Longevity: 0%	it's just wrong

04-01-2006, 12:10 AM	#6 (permalink)
Sophie* MilitarySOS Jewel Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 14,225 Classifieds: (0) Activity: 0% Longevity: 68%	I'm not sure there's anything positive to say about them... Just out of curiosity, what made you think to ask?

04-01-2006, 12:13 AM	#7 (permalink)
Rach Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 23,941 Classifieds: (5) Activity: 17% Longevity: 91%	lol, exactly Zelda...I was going to say "i think their great!" Does this apply to young girls who think having a baby will make their relationship better & will be happy? I think it's sad all around....They don't know it at the time, but a baby isn't going to solve anything and then they have to learn the hard way....

04-01-2006, 09:17 AM	#10 (permalink)
Heather Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: My little house on the prairie Posts: 18,581 Classifieds: (1) Activity: 40% Longevity: 66%	Its a really bad choice. From what I've seen it really doesnt work. She'll end up with the kid no man and no money. Not smart. they need to be better educated