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    Weird or Cute?

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    This guy I met online (ugh I know...) asked me out on Saturday. We've been talking on the phone and texting for a few weeks now, so that's not anything unusual really. The interesting part is that he said if Id rather not leave my son with a sitter that he is welcome to come also. This guy said he loves kids and would enjoy spending time with both of us. Is that weird or cute?


    Note: This is not a question of whether or not to bring DS.


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    Hmmm.. Its sweet but kind of weird for a first date.

    Just out of curiousity: Would you bring DS along on a first date?
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    He is letting you know that is not awkward that you ahve a son. That is a good sign . My daughter is what brought my hubsand to me this time around.
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    A little different, and a good sign IMO.
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    Its sweet that he offered! At least I think so. It shows that he understands the hardships of a single mom.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DubzSoPretty View Post
    Hmmm.. Its sweet but kind of weird for a first date.

    Just out of curiousity: Would you bring DS along on a first date?
    I haven't decided really. DS is so young that he wouldn't remember, but something about it still feels weird. At the same time, not that I'm looking for anything too serious, if we were to actually date I would bring DS to things. I don't think it could hurt for him(the guy) to see what it would be like.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jen2407 View Post
    Its sweet that he offered! At least I think so. It shows that he understands the hardships of a single mom.
    His mom was/is a single mom, so I think that's where it comes from!


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    IMO that's a great sign. My dad did that when he starting dating my mom, it was very sweet. It's good that he knows your son is and always will be number one and wants you to see that. So I vote cute.
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    It's not so much cute or weird but it shows openness and maturity. Seems like a good sign. That being said, the first date is for you! Enjoy it! I met DH online and I didn't think that I could be as happy and compatible with someone as I am with him.
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    I don't think it's weird at all!!! DH said I could bring the kiddos on our first date and his was the same situation as well. He was raised by a single mother and saw how hard it was for her to juggle work, school, kids and a personal life.

    I DIDN'T bring them on our first date but I thought it was cool that he suggested it.
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