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    so he just left for his basic, and saying googdbye was by far the hardest thing ive ever had to do. i couldnt even go outside to watch the car drive off...and to make things even worse our dog is just sitting at the door crying expecting him to walk back in (hes still a puppy and has separation issues). uhhh i want this to be over already and its only been a few short mins. i better get myself together if im this upset about 2 months of basic...
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    First day is always the hardest. It'll get easier. Just take each day at a time

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    I stayed on the couch for the first day, when he had actually shipped to Fort LW. The next day, it was back to business as usual, minus DH. It sucks, but it does get better. I wrote him a letter every day. That really helped me because it was almost like I was talking to him.
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    it will evetually get better, or at least a little easier. whenever you need us your MSOS crew is here for you!!
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    I know what you mean. I layed on the couch all day and cried my eyes out.
    And I was upset for a few days. Then he called me from the airport, then a few days later I got a letter, and it got A LOT better.
    Just take it one day at a time. It'll get better, PROMISE!

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    No matter how many times you do it, saying goodbye is never easy. But the separation will get easier as the days go by. Give yourself some time to be sad, then try and stay busy.
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    It's hard but you'll get through it.

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