I read a lot of blogs about women saying, "Idk if I can do this anymore..it's been so long since we've seen eachother... he's gonna be different.. I'm not even gonna know him anymore!" If you have said any of this at any point during a deployment... Shame on YOU. Different is not always a bad thing. And Different does not always happen with the soldier, women are way more likely to become "different" during a deployment. We, the ones who stay behind will definately become different....