Some times it completely catches you off gaurd when your deployed man seems to be starting arguments ALL the time!! Has calls or emails become about him accusing you of cheating or accusing you of saying something along those lines or just plain nothings? Have you become different about your aruments than before when he was here.. like instead of trying to prove your point you just keep quiet and let him yell? Or have you contributed just as much in the yelling and arguing only to hang up the phone...