A lot of entries I've read express how they are soo sad but when their Husband/boyfriend calls from overseas they don't tell them how they're feeling. I understand why this happens so often. Many, many FRG or deployment help pamplets for wives of military men lead women to believe that we have to be this sort of "unconditional Strong" for them. They tell us wives or girlfriends that we have to make sure not to stress them out or worry them because their job should come first over there...