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by , 08-31-2008 at 01:07 AM (1245 Views)
Ahhh one of the rare moments of blogging about whatever comes to mind....

Do you ever feel people judge you and they don't even "know" you. There are too many drama queens that talk crap and stir sh*t up that some don't know the TRUTH from their own lies. I think it is sad that some people crave attention like that. I am sure there is some sort of psychological disorder that it falls under but since I am not a psych major, I wouldn't know. Feel free to enlighten me if you like. Possibly sociopath?? http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html
They can never admit any wrongdoing to ANYONE and always play the "victim". I believe the words manipulative and deceitful come to mind...

I believe you shouldn't take the word of mouth of someone about people you don't know. I give everyone a chance until THEY give me a reason not to. I no longer take the word of someone else and believe what they say. I fell victim to that before and I was wrong. I left high school more than 18 yrs ago and I have no desire to go back. I am a grown adult with a lot of responsibilities to take care of everyday.

I have also made my own fair share of mistakes but I have never tried to hurt anyone maliciously. My heart and conscience are too big for that.

Yes, I like to feel young and have fun but with dignity. Worrying about and trying to fix what others think and some have corrupted people to think is not on my agenda. I don't give a CRAP what people think about me. Unless you KNOW me, save the judgments for yourself. If you don't give people a chance to prove themselves TO YOU, you could be missing out on a special friendship.

I love my life and feel blessed to have the friends I do in it. I treat my friends the way I would want to be treated. I don't use people to get what I want and then dump them like yesterday's newspaper. That is just p-a-t-h-e-t-i-c and childish! Don't you sometimes wish potential friends came with references and resumes? There have been times I wish they did... Would have saved me a lot of headaches and time I spent away from my own family. I guess that is what I get for being so vulnerable and caring....

I really don't know how some people sleep at night....


This is just my opinion and thoughts.

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Updated 08-31-2008 at 09:09 AM by trio_a_jedna

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  1. amber,yo's Avatar
    i totally agree with you on this!
  2. LoveInTheArmy's Avatar
    I know exactly the type of person your describing. i know a few of those. one girl actually began stalking me and tried ruining relationships i had with people. its terrible that they feel the need to act this way.
  3. TLC's Avatar
    They're called 'pathological liars'. I've delt with enough of them in my life... namely my ex-bf and my older sister.
  4. marylf's Avatar
    OMG!!! I thought I was the only one whose seen the crazyness of some of these army wives. Finally I'm not alone.
    Mary