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  1. He doesn't get it!!!

    by , 06-26-2008 at 01:12 AM
    i don't know HOW many times I need to tell him how long a wedding takes to plan! I know there are ways of doing it quickly, but I want to "do it right," whatever that means. Anyway, every time I say something like "make a list of you favorite foods so I can begin making a menu." he freaks! HE'S the one who wanted this damn wedding. And it's NINE MONTHS away!! I'm asking small things of him because I know he won't want to think about it while he's training. I just get so pissed ...
  2. Update to "colors are complicated"

    by , 06-01-2008 at 05:25 AM
    X-Posted on the boards.

    Throughout the whole 5 year relationship I said I just wanted to go to city hall and get married. Maybe even Vegas. Then we got engaged and he suddenly tells me he has always wanted a big wedding. I was ok with that. I don't hate my family or weddings, I just didn't feel like going though the hassle. So I changed my plan to a big wedding. I even figured out who is paying for it (and he doesn't have to fit the bill for anything, neither do his parents!)! ...
  3. Colors are complicated

    by , 05-31-2008 at 03:24 AM
    I have 9 months to go, but recently I had a change of heart in the color choices(green and yellow). Mostly because they would wash out in our setting.

    So in trying to decide a new color I brought my fiance over. He also said the green and yellow was a bad idea. We are having SUCH a hard time deciding on a new one!! He said no pink.

    ok. Maybe a light blue or a purple?
    He says "NO! Thats WAY too girly." (hello, I'm a girl, it's a union party, ...
  4. I hate my effing brother.

    by , 05-28-2008 at 02:09 AM
    I have posted a lot about how much he sucks. He's 34, has a kid and is living with my mom and I until he can get out.
    It is so tense in this household!
    Tonight he yelled at me for not interfering in fights between him and my mom. I've done that BEFORE and it makes things WORSE. He says he does not remember.
    My mom is constantly upset and she says at least once a day she wants to kill herself. She has been this way before, it is very upsetting. She is very unstable ...

    Updated 05-28-2008 at 02:44 AM by MissOHara

  5. Wedding Dress!

    by , 05-19-2008 at 11:27 PM
    Tomorrow I am going to try to narrow my 6 favorite dresses down to 2-3 maybe even 1!! I'm excited. I can't find 3 of the dresses online, but I will post the other 3!

    I will change the sleeves to either flutter or the wide-to-thin thing.

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