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Letter to my Best Friend

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, 05-20-2008 at 08:10 AM (774 Views)
I am kind of doing the opposite of this blog challenge, a letter to him in the event of him dying. It is something that could become very real very quickly do to an illness and I think it will be easier to write in this way...


I honestly cannot imagine my life without you in, and I am pretty sure you feel the same way.

For the last nearly 4 years you have been the person I go to for all things sad and happy. I cannot imagine getting up in the morning and not texting you. I cannot remember the last time I went a day without talking to you.

Vacation, relay, panera, saladworks, barnes and noble, alcohol, speeding, the outlets, SU and a million more things would not be the same without you there with me.

When you told me you were sick, again, I really just felt like it was the end of the world. I realised that the times we fight about stupid things like RFL banners and forgotten tennis times do not matter. At the end of the day you are my favorite person in the world and one of the most important people in my life.

I know that you need me to be the strong one, but I just simply feel so lost when I think about that you could possibly not be here when I get married or have kids, or graduate college for that matter.

Today, when you told me I need to go to the bank and get put on your safety deposit box account it was really sad. It is a sad realization that at our young age we have to be worried that you might not be able to walk in and retrieve those things yourself.

If I were to be the one who was sick, or something were to happen to me, I want you to know that you are the person in my life that brings me the most joy. That every single day we spent as best friends made my life better. You are the nicest person on the face of the earth.

We are so much alike, driven to get whatever we want and neither of us stop until we get it. I want you in my life forever, and I won't stop helping you fight for that, ever.

love you.

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  1. CoffeeGirl's Avatar
    Your such a beautiful person Ash:hugehug:D
  2. GrumpyPants's Avatar
    Ashley, that is so beautiful.I feel the same way but I try to ignore the fact that he might not come home one day.He even asked me if I could be his widow, It killed every part of me.Pray for his safety, we all do.