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For me personally, the situation is not black & white...

If DH raised his hand to me out of anger I would leave for the night/few days/week... But that does not mean it would be the end of my marriage, it would depend on the circumstances leading up to the event, his actions afterward, if he was willing to go to counseling on his own as well as together, if he enrolled in anger management programs or something like that, ect...