The financial thing you should just let go for now. My DF's family still does all that since the bills come to his house. I take care of a few for him but not many. You need to talk to him if things are bugging you. Just holding it in is going to cause you to resent him and/or his mother and that's not a good way to start the marriage. Talk to his mom about the flowers. If you don't want her to surprise you tell her no. She may be paying for them, but it's up to you and dustin to decide what you want, not her. Honestly the best thing you can do for yourself is just try to relax!!! He loves his momma! LOL! DF talked to his mom a lot at first too and the relationship she and I had was/is really important to him! Don't let it bother you. You don't have to compete with her. She's his mom and you are his fiancee. There's a big difference and he loves you both in very different ways. Just kind of go with it right now. If something bugs you let each of them know! It'll just make it worse if you bottle it up!! HTH!!
